Add tsan for vortex-ffi, fix asan instrumentation

[myrrc]

• Add proper instrumentation for vortex-ffi (didn't check memory leaks before due to Mimalloc).
• Add memory sanitizer and thread sanitizer runtimes for Rust.
• Remove verbosity=1 from sanitizer output as it's too noisy.
• Remove VX_DUCKDB_DEBUG since we don't check duckdb code in these jobs.
• Make address sanitizer fail on error to fail Github action job.
• Add cross Rust-C address and thread sanitizers.
• Fix existing sanitizer errors (memory leak in vx_sink).
• Allow building FFI C part library with Rust's target triple via TARGET_TRIPLE CMake option.

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will not alter performance

✅ 1106 untouched benchmarks
⏩ 1522 skipped benchmarks¹

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_{Comparing myrrc/sanitizer-ffi (ca2bcbd) with develop (9b1f954)}

Footnotes

1. 1522 benchmarks were skipped, so the baseline results were used instead. If they were deleted from the codebase, click here and archive them to remove them from the performance reports. ↩

[myrrc]

@0ax1 notes we should not use Mimalloc by default in vortex-ffi, it should be opt-in.

[robert3005]

I have adjusted required checks. Let ship this and make adjustments if necessary