Add support for multiple query event listeners

[evanvdia]

Description

Add support for multiple query event listeners to allow multiple plugins to handle events independently.
Cherry-pick of trinodb/trino#3128

Motivation and Context

Issue : #24454

Test Plan

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Add support for multiple query event listeners.

[steveburnett]

Thanks for the doc! Could an example be added?

[steveburnett]

Thanks for the doc!

Pull updated branch, new doc build, looks good. Thanks!

[tdcmeehan]

Please attribute the author of the commit as mentioned in our contributing guide (see backport commits).

Please write a test with dummy event listeners. You should be able to create internal dummy listeners by writing properties to temp files, invoke the EventListenerManager with a dummy event and prove that two or more events are triggered.