feat: Add NIC empty-host Ingress documentation

[haywoodsh]

Proposed changes

Update documentation for Ingress resources without a host field:

• Update command-line-arguments.md with listener port notes
• Update configmap-resource.md with default-server-return interaction
• Update upgrade.md with custom templates section

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