refactor: start a meta-service as local meta for testing

[drmingdrmer]

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Summary

refactor: start a meta-service as local meta for testing

• Replaced the in-memory meta-store with a meta-service running in a
  temporary directory for testing purposes.

• The in-memory meta-store was limited in functionality and did not
  provide a complete feature set.

• The new approach ensures full functionality during testing by
  simulating a real meta-service.

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• Refactoring

Related Issues

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Pull Request Overview

This PR refactors the meta-store for testing by replacing the in-memory implementation with a local meta-service, simulating real meta-service behavior. Key changes include adding delayed sleeps in tests to account for timestamp discrepancies, updating async work to use the new meta-service API, and refactoring dependency usage in both testing and production modules.

Reviewed Changes

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File	Description
src/query/service/tests/it/sessions/queue_mgr.rs	Added timed delays to ensure correct semaphore ordering in tests
src/query/service/src/sessions/queue_mgr.rs	Added Debug derivation for AcquireQueueGuard
src/query/management/tests/it/workload.rs	Converted workload manager creation to async with updated meta-store API
src/query/management/tests/it/warehouse.rs	Updated warehouse tests to construct local meta-service from the new API
src/meta/store/*	Replaced MemMeta with LocalMetaService and updated tests accordingly
src/meta/api/src/txn_backoff.rs	Adjusted backoff test tolerance to account for increased timing variation

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src/meta/api/src/txn_backoff.rs:143

• [nitpick] Update the assertion message to better reflect the expected timing behavior now that the tolerance has increased from 0.010 to 0.100 seconds, minimizing potential confusion during test failures.

assert!(elapsed < 0.100, "{} is expected to be 0", elapsed);