migrate from setup.py to pyproject.toml

[vtavana]

Migrating from setup.py to pyproject.toml to avoid deprecated warning.

DEPRECATION: Legacy editable install of mkl_fft==1.3.11 from file:~/repos/mkl_fft (setup.py develop) is deprecated. pip 25.1 will enforce this behaviour change. A possible replacement is to add a pyproject.toml or enable --use-pep517, and use setuptools >= 64. If the resulting installation is not behaving as expected, try using --config-settings editable_mode=compat. Please consult the setuptools documentation for more information. Discussion can be found at pypa/pip#11457

In addition, required_python version is updated to be 3.9>=,<3.13, numpy version is updated to be >1.26.4 and also support for macOS is removed since OneAPI support discontinued.