update node version for update deps ci to node 20

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What does this PR do?

update deps CI has been failing for the past week due to this error

Uncoincidentally, the latest aws/sdk package was also released a week, and requires node20.

this pr makes the updates from node18 to node20 in the update-deps ci

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