Improve `vp up` output customization

[crusty-voidzero]

Summary

Direct user feedback asks for more control over vp up output formatting and organization.

Reference: https://bsky.app/profile/nestor.rip/post/3mssje4iqu22g

Requested improvements

• Group output by pnpm catalog, similar to taze
• Allow customizing visible columns
• Allow controlling line wrapping

Why this matters

Users comparing dependency update tooling expect better readability and output control, especially in larger workspaces.