feat: users cannot apply resource requests that exceed 63 characters

[SaphMB]

Context
When applying a resource request that exceeds the 63 character limit, the following behaviour occurs:

• Kratix attempts to reconcile the resource request
• Due to the request name it error when attempting the set the kratix.io/resource-name label
• Reconciliation never ends

This is also difficult to recover from as when the deletion timestamp is applies, the reconciler still attempts to parse and set the labels but cannot due to the character limit. Users need to delete the Promise and the kratix.io/resource-request-cleanup finalizer which is less than ideal

Acceptance

Given I have a resource.yaml where the name is greater that 63 characters
When I run kubectl apply -f resource.yaml
Then I am immediately informed that my resource cannot be applied due to the name exceeding 63 characters
And there is no attempt to reconcile the request

[catmo-syntasso]

qq: this is just for resource name, we mentioned on the quick chat that it may also be true for container names, is this the case? do we need a second task for that?
thanks :)

[SaphMB]

qq: this is just for resource name, we mentioned on the quick chat that it may also be true for container names, is this the case? do we need a second task for that? thanks :)

Good point @catmo-syntasso , this is captured in #421