Be more accurate about calculating display_col from a BytePos

No longer track "zero-width" chars in `SourceMap`, read directly from the line when calculating the `display_col` of a `BytePos`. Move `char_width` to `rustc_span` and use it from the emitter.

This change allows the following to properly align in terminals (depending on the font, the replaced control codepoints are rendered as 1 or 2 width, on my terminal they are rendered as 1, on VSCode text they are rendered as 2):

```
error: this file contains an unclosed delimiter
  --> $DIR/issue-68629.rs:5:17
   |
LL | ␜␟ts␀![{i
   |       -- unclosed delimiter
   |       |
   |       unclosed delimiter
LL | ␀␀  fn rݻoa>rݻm
   |                ^
```

Author: estebank

Cargo.lock

@@ -3982,7 +3982,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "termcolor",
  "termize",
  "tracing",
- "unicode-width",
  "windows",
 ]
 

compiler/rustc_errors/Cargo.toml

@@ -26,7 +26,6 @@ serde_json = "1.0.59"
 termcolor = "1.2.0"
 termize = "0.1.1"
 tracing = "0.1"
-unicode-width = "0.1.4"
 # tidy-alphabetical-end
 
 [target.'cfg(windows)'.dependencies.windows]