[Build Presets] Create a Windows preset

[jathu]

Learn more about presets and existing presets in tools/cmake/preset.

• Create Windows presets in CMakePresets.json
• Add the preset into CI in build-presets.yml
• Update public docs to use new presets

[Jack-Khuu]

What module would these types of issues fall under?

[jathu]

@Jack-Khuu this is in a project (https://github.com/orgs/pytorch/projects/113). The project will be made public soon