[libc++] Add _LIBCPP_NO_UNIQUE_ADDRESS to flat_{,multi}map::value_compare (#137594)

This breaks the ABI of `flat_{,multi}map::value_compare`, but this type
has only been introduced in LLVM 20, so it should be very unlikely that
we break anybody if we back-port this now.

(cherry picked from commit ed0aa99)

Author: philnik777

libcxx/include/__flat_map/flat_map.h

@@ -113,7 +113,7 @@ class flat_map {
 
   class value_compare {
   private:
-    key_compare __comp_;
+    _LIBCPP_NO_UNIQUE_ADDRESS key_compare __comp_;
     _LIBCPP_HIDE_FROM_ABI value_compare(key_compare __c) : __comp_(__c) {}
     friend flat_map;
 

libcxx/include/__flat_map/flat_multimap.h

@@ -115,7 +115,7 @@ class flat_multimap {
 
   class value_compare {
   private:
-    key_compare __comp_;
+    _LIBCPP_NO_UNIQUE_ADDRESS key_compare __comp_;
     _LIBCPP_HIDE_FROM_ABI value_compare(key_compare __c) : __comp_(__c) {}
     friend flat_multimap;