Fix RCTDevLoadingView crash when adding button constraints (#54690)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: #54690

Changelog:
[iOS][Fixed] - Fixed crash from dismiss button in DevLoadingView

D86420230 added a dismiss button feature to RCTDevLoadingView. However, when adding layout constraints on line 198, it incorrectly checked the `dismissButton` parameter instead of the `self->_dismissButton` instance variable. This caused NSLayoutConstraint crashes when the parameter was nil/false but the instance variable existed from a previous call, or vice versa.

This changes line 198 to check `self->_dismissButton` (the instance variable) instead of `dismissButton` (the function parameter) to properly verify if the button exists before adding constraints to it.

Reviewed By: vzaidman, javache

Differential Revision: D87871856

fbshipit-source-id: c8fe033bce383c2589041c9cd3fad65f37553d3c

Author: emily8rown

packages/react-native/React/CoreModules/RCTDevLoadingView.mm

@@ -195,7 +195,7 @@ - (void)showMessage:(NSString *)message
     ]];
 
     // Add button-specific constraints if button exists
-    if (dismissButton) {
+    if (self->_dismissButton != nullptr) {
       [constraints addObjectsFromArray:@[
         [self->_dismissButton.trailingAnchor constraintEqualToAnchor:self->_container.trailingAnchor constant:-10],
         [self->_dismissButton.centerYAnchor constraintEqualToAnchor:self->_label.centerYAnchor],