PyTorch 'meta' device needs per-device capabilities

[crusaderky]

PyTorch has a special device, meta, which is a dummy device with no underlying data. This is a very powerful testing tool.
However, PyTorch has not implemented special support for unknown shapes just for this device. As a result, unique etc. fail.

Proposal

Change capabilities() to capabilities(*, device=None), matching the signature of default_dtypes() and dtypes().

Change array_api_compat.torch:

def capabilities(*, device=None):
    device = torch.get_default_device() if device is None else torch.device(device)
    is_material = device.type != "meta"
    return {
        "boolean indexing": is_material,
        "data-dependent shapes": is_material,
        "max dimensions": 64,
    }

[crusaderky]

xref data-apis/array-api-extra#300